Rapid Ejaculation? What is that? Doesn’t she mean PREMATURE ejaculation? No, actually the term premature ejaculation is a thing of the past, and for a very good reason too.
When we are talking about sex and sexuality, there is so much to be said for staying away from black and white definitions. There is a reason that the well-known author E.L. James gave her best-selling book the title “50 Shades of Grey”. We are living in a world of greys. While at times, we may feel that the idea of individuality minimizes the innate need human beings have to belong and affiliate themselves with a group of like-minded people, recognizing that all things are relative is an important concept.
Utilizing the term premature ejaculation (PE) is dependent on our ability to determine the exact time period where ejaculation is socially/medically/psychologically acceptable. When is it too soon and when is it, not soon enough (sometimes called retarded ejaculation)?
Perceived rapid ejaculation means that either the male or the female partner feels that things are going more quickly than they would like, that ejaculation is happening either before penetration or soon thereafter, pre-empting or significantly diminishing sexual satisfaction for one or both partners. [Read more…]